Solo Travel: 12 Things Nobody Tells You
Travellagio · 7 min read
Every solo travel article says “it’ll change your life!” Here are the things those articles skip — the real, unglamorous truths alongside the genuinely transformative parts.
1. The first 48 hours are the hardest
You’ll arrive alone, wonder what you’re doing, and consider booking a flight home. This is normal. Push through it. By day 3, you’ll have found your rhythm.
2. You’ll eat alone. It’s fine.
The first solo restaurant meal feels awkward. By the third, you won’t notice. Bring a book or sit at the bar.
3. You’ll spend more than you planned
Solo travelers can’t split rooms, taxis, or bottles of wine. Budget 20–30% more than you would for a couple’s trip.
4. Hostels are the easiest way to meet people
Even if you can afford a hotel. Stay in a hostel for 2–3 nights at the start to meet travel companions. You can upgrade to a private room later.
5. Share your itinerary with someone at home
Not because something will go wrong. Because if it does, someone should know where you are.
6. The loneliness comes in waves
You’ll have days of pure freedom and days of genuine loneliness. Both are part of it. Neither lasts.
7. You’ll become extremely decisive
No one to consult means no one to debate with. You’ll learn to trust your own judgment fast.
8. Best solo destinations for first-timers
- Portugal — safe, affordable, English-friendly, walkable cities
- Japan — safest country on earth, excellent public transport, solo-friendly culture
- Thailand — easy backpacker infrastructure, cheap, welcoming
- Georgia — incredibly hospitable culture, tiny and affordable